Malcolm Gladwell wrote a great book called “Blink” and I think it is so true that we sum up another person in a blink of an eye. But for those of us who recognise how ugly and stereotyping this sort of behaviour can be, there comes a delay in accepting that “blink” judgement. We search and explore, through conversation, more.

The three things I believe we are all asking in the search for “who are you?” are:

  1. What drives you?
  2. What’s your goodness?
  3. What’s your hurt level?

For me, these three questions define us. They are the three elements of a personal story that is also very predictive of the future.

What drives you? – It could be fear or it could be the opposite… Either way, there’s a need for self honesty here. What drives you?

What’s your goodness? – There are those in the world whose wounds and struggles have arrived at the three widow makers, Should’ve, could’ve and would’ve. These always lead to an early grave. The ability to find goodness in life is the cornerstone of whether we will achieve or fail.

What’s your hurt level? There’s a great difference between pain and suffering. Suffering is pain that you don’t know when it will end. Many people are afraid of and resent pain, they complain, again and again, never refrain from moanng about pain. Then, you know they will not go to the end of the road with you, it’ll be too hard.

When you share your story, be clear about your Drivers, Goodness’, and Hurts. It makes all the difference.

About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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