The first layer is filled with anxiety and stress because there is no certainty of the future in the first layer. Given that all eyes are turned to the future, this creates, whether we know it or not, an underlying anxiety that can either sabotage what we wish to achieve or lead to disruption: calamity, disaster and humbling circumstances at both a work and personal level. Today we discuss getting past the first layer by breaking the myth of individuality.

Individuality is the awareness of separation, which we call, ME. That is: individuality is that idea of separate thought, separate emotion, “I am I and I have a right to be an individual.” As an individual a person has become conscious of their separate action. This desire for a separate identity forces people to enter into work they hate, activities they don’t understand, vocations that are boring attempting to prove something, to create a sense of individuality. Individuality is not harmonious; it is a fiction. 

Rather than seeking “identification with individuality” you might find more harmony in your heart if you say, “I am no better or worse than anybody else. I am clever as well as dumb, I am happy and sometimes sad, I am right and equally wrong, I am nice and sometimes mean, I am humble and, at the same time proud, I am success and I am a failure.” Then you can stop trying to be different and wasting all that time on identity and get on with life and loving people for who they are, just like you. Once this is accomplished you are beginning to develop some sense of personal harmony.

With children – you don’t bring them up best by comparing who they are to some arbitrary standard you’ve created. You free them by respect and love and by seeing their gifts. People become as we treat them. They, like you, are a perfect balance of good news and bad, and the wise parent knows it, but focuses on the good news (called strengths by some). 

People do not thrive by putting them in boxes that have negative labels like ADD or depression. When we see our family it is wiser to say, “ There is no separation between me and my child. What I see in them is in me in a different form. Therefore if there’s nothing I need to change in them, it is all worthy of love in them, as it is in me. But if we don’t like ourselves, we can easily start trying to change that aspect of us by eliminating it in them. 

If they are hyperactive it’s because you can’t concentrate on one thing at a time. If they are ADD then you lack discipline. It’s always a mirror. So, rather than individualise your children, see that they too, are interconnected with you, and that they are the perfect mirror. If you don’t like something in them, rather than punish them to fix it, learn to love it in you first.

About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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