When something doesn’t quite go right in life, like nearly every day, we adapt pretty well. We might get angry or frustrated for a few seconds, but in general we’re all pretty good at handling the unexpected. No lost power there.

But sometimes the proverbial hits the fan and we go with it. Sometimes we’re really attached to an outcome and when it doesn’t happen the way we expect, well, you know.

A big shattered dream is just a little shattered dream only bigger. So, if we can deal with little ones, we can deal with big ones. Here’s how:

  1. Stop… stop fixing, fighting, thinking, solving, involving, cajoling, working, worrying. Stop and take a bit of time. The pain really does have to sink in and do its work.
  2. Be honest … one of the worst enemies of healing and dealing with shattered dreams is denial. Face it. Create a resolve. Don’t get sucked into the idea it might or it could or it should.
  3. Seek help … objectivity is so important but you do not get objectivity from mum, dad, brother, sister, uncle, auntie, mate, friend, ex partner or colleague – you get opinion and those are rarely objective. They know you too well. Pay for advice.
  4. Never look  back and say “if only” instead look forward and say “thank goodness”
  5. Finally, remember, there is no such thing as a broken heart, there is only a broken ego. So, as much as it feels like the world is coming to an end sometimes, remember, it’s just your ego cracking and that, from an evolutionary perspective is a good thing.

Enjoy and remember, hold the power.

 

Chris

About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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