Do you feel like you are being pulled from pillar to post trying to get things done? Does your situation feel like it’s a never ending battle trying to manage time, people’s expectations and your own ambitions? In other words are you feeling compromised?

Compromise is a death trap.

Don’t.

Compromise stresses you out. It sickens you. You feel like a half person. When you compromise you break your own heart.

But

Be careful that the thing you are hanging onto, and feeling compromised about, is worth hanging onto. Too much of that compromised feeling can be just your ego. And when that happens, and your resist compromise you may just be fighting for thin air.

When to Compromise

Whenever you make a stand for or against something, it’s just your ego having a field day… So, that might not be the wisest thing to resist compromising.

Whenever you feel insulted, ignored, put down, shamed, embarrassed, humiliated… that’s again, your ego pretending to be you when it’s not. So, maybe that’s not a great place to resist compromise.

Thinking you are better or worse, more right than wrong, might again be your ego just peeing into the wind and what you might call push back or resistance from people, might just be blow back from peeing into the wind. Better to compromise and go with the flow.

When not to compromise

There is only one topic on which you can justify not compromising and that is?

Alignment

You have a talent right? Nature put in you a gift. It could be music. It could be writing. It could be playing footy. It could be cooking. Whatever it is, you’ve probably done a lot of it and done pretty good at it. It’s this that can’t be compromised.

If you give up trying to be good at that, you compromise yourself. You can easily compromise your beliefs or religious ideas because they are just thoughts, but if you compromise your talent, your ambition to get paid more and more for doing more and more of that, you give up. If you give up on your talent, you give up on you.

Now there are a lot of hocus pokus so called spiritual or self help therapies around that suggest that you are you, no matter what you do. I disagree. If you don’t do more and more of what you were born to do, you end up hating you. And then you can’t walk your talk which makes you rigid and resistant and ego centric. When that happens you might just start resisting compromise on the wrong things.

When a person can’t walk their talk they start to talk their talk. They argue that they are right and others are wrong. They want to win arguments and put others down because they lost their own self respect. It’s a hard situation because fighting for the ego and being right is exhausting and always escalates troubles.

Do you know your talent?

If not, come do the Back on Track .. I’ll help you find it.

About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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