It’s not in my nature to make things sound simplistic. But I would love to make things sound simple. Stress is not healthy and all stress is caused by thinking. So if you can change your thinking you can change your stress. I would like to suggest a few very easy exercises that can make your stress go away and you’re thinking healthier.

First and foremost, when things aren’t the way you want them, and you can’t change it (because it’s in the past) the best thing you can do is work out how you can want it. You might say I wish that didn’t happen, or I wish it happened differently, but that set up in you anxiety and stress, so the healthiest sort is I’m glad it happened and I’m glad it happened the way it happened because…

Second, look for balance. All emotion is one-sided thinking. And in the entire universe there is nothing that has one side alone. Even our thinking when it is one-sided is completely delusional and highly emotional. When we see bad in something it’s because we can’t see the good as well. When we see the good in something it because we can’t see the bad as well.

Third, break convention. Not everybody thinks that sadness is an appropriate emotion when somebody else is sad. When somebody else is happy we are happy. When somebody stressed therefore we often stress about this stress. But that’s not necessarily the healthiest response when we are around people whose emotions will fluctuate based on their perception of reality.   it is far wiser to find an emotional space that is independent of other people. The way to do this is what we call the helicopter process. When others are in an emotional up or down see if you can rise above it.

Finally, have a vision. When you have the option of feeling happy or sad, feeling elated or depressed, feeling pleasure or pain those things are emotions and they will have a counter effect. For example a happy moment at work may not be counterbalanced at work but me turning to be a sad moment at home. Just try it, if you come home from work full of yourself thinking you’ve just conquered Mount Everest, see how your partner behaves towards you! The bottom line will be that they will bring you down and this is what nature intended. So instead of going up and down with emotion have a vision and ask yourself each day and my fulfilling my vision?

Putting the heart and soul into life is an argument between emotion  (seeking pleasure avoiding  pain) and vision of the long-term. It’s been demonstrated through research that the ability to delay gratification is one of the most telling factors in the success of an individual. Look up on Google “the marshmallow experiment.”

Live with spirit,

Chris Walker

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About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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